Since time immemorial, man has been taught by well meaning elders, teachers, & the society in general, that we should lead an honest & Truthful life. Basically, what do these words - Honesty & Truthful, mean? Honesty means - Sincerity, Truthfulness, Integrity, Openness, Frankness. So, Honesty & Truthfulness are essentially synonyms. Therefore, being honest leads to being truthful, & a truthful person is essentially honest.
In today's world, where man is so dishonest, & dishonesty & cunningness is highly regarded as being "smart" & "tactful", where is the place for the timeless virtues like honesty & truthfulness? Should we be honest at all, in the first place? Does it "pay" us in the long run, being honest? Do we run the risk of being fooled by the cunningness of others by being honest? How do we reconcile with these realities in the midst of which we all live currently, & still be honest in our lives? What do we get "in return" for being honest?
I must admit that answers to these questions cannot be answered without taking the help of Philosophy. Let me attempt to answer these questions with as little help from Philosophy as possible. I will try my best to be logical & rational to the maximum possible. Now, why should we be honest? Fundamentally, as is widely acknowledged by the wise, HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY. But, what is honesty? Honesty, as explained earlier is "BEING TRUTHFUL". Now, why should we be truthful? Let us try to answer the question - what is Truth? Truth is that, which essentially does not change with time. Truth is that, from which all of existence is born. Truth is that, which fundamentally governs life & therefore it governs existence. Truth is that, which is essentially the same for any man, & remains the same for eternity. Truth is that, which can be validated & established by any man ONLY through "SELF EXPERIENCE" & as a consequence, it cannot be established thru' words or speech. In simple terms, TRUTH ALONE IS, everything else is not. To be able to comprehend & establish Truth completely, we have to develop the ability to experience Truth "AS IT IS, IN ITS TOTALITY", & not "as we preceive it to be", based on appearances, attributes, or perceptions. "TOTALITY", that's the key to realize & experience & live life in Truth. What this essentially means is - each of the attributes of appearance, properties, or taste, or perceptions, independently of each other cannot give us the experience of "TOTALITY" of Truth. Perception can be misleading often times because it has to pass thru' the medium of the sense organs, based on whose state or well being, the mind draws its conclusions. And, mind, for all we know, is never steady. It is perhaps THE MOST IMPORTANT ENTITY WHICH MAN HAS TO ENDEAVOR TO CONQUER. In my opinion, the man who knows his mind in its totality & has conquered it, is the Lord of the Universe.
I remember a very beautiful story. Once upon a time, there lived a Guru who had 5 disciples. These disciples had never seen an elephant in their lives. So, one fine day, the Guru takes his disciples to an elephant by blindfolding them & asks them to perceive for themselves what an elephant is like, by touching it. So, each of the 5 disciples touches & feels different aspects of the elephant & comes to his own conclusions. After that, they all return back to the Gurukula & the Guru asks each of the 5 to explain what they perceive the elephant to be like. Here's what they said:
Disciple 1 (who had felt the tail): The elephant is like a rope.
Disciple 2 (who had felt the legs): The elephant is like a pillar.
Disciple 3 (who had felt the ears): The elephant is like a fan.
Disciple 4 (who had felt the trunk): The elephant is like bamboo.
Disciple 5 (who had felt the body): The elephant is like a wall.
After hearing their versions of what the elephant is like, the Guru sent for an elephant to be brought to the Gurukula. Seeing this, the disciples were surprised that the elephant was not only like what each of them independently experienced, but was much more than that. It was a combination of all that each of them had individually experienced. Seeing surprise on their faces, the Guru addressing them, says thus: Each one of you were true to the extent of your own individual experiences of the attributes of the elephant. But, Truth or Reality, is not circumscribed by individual experiences. Truth or Reality is an experience of the TOTALITY. And, this TOTALITY is not circumscribed by space and time, as was experienced by each one of you independently. In fact, this TOTALITY encompasses space & time within itself. In the case of the totality of elephant, to consider it as the sum or combination of all the attributes that you all mentioned is very limiting indeed. That is because, what you all described about the elephant are only the attributes of the elephant. The elephant is not the attributes that you described. Nor is the elephant sum of all the attributes mentioned by you all. Perhaps, a more "complete" way of defining an elephant could be like this - an elephant is a "Being" that has the physical attributes of a rope, pillar, fan, bamboo, & wall; in addition to these physical attributes, it also has attributes of strength; it can walk at an average speed of 4 - 6 miles per hour & can run upto a speed of 15 - 20 mph; it is a mammal which gives birth to young ones, & so on. You can go on describing each and every attribute of the elephant to the greatest detail possible, but you'll still not be describing the elephant itself by doing so. This is not because you are unintelligent or because you lack some special knowledge to describe the elephant. This is because, it is not possible to describe the elephant in its "TOTALITY" even if your eyes were not blindfolded. This is because, the elephant is not any object that can be described based on the deductions made by the observations about its attributes, behavior, way of living, environment, etc. THE ELEPHANT IS A STATE OF BEING, JUST LIKE MAN IS A STATE OF BEING.
This "state" can be an elephant, a dog, a rock, a tree, a river, an ocean, the Earth, the Universe, or whatever. Each of these is nothing but - THE STATE OF BEING. Since it is a state of Being, THAT BEING CAN TAKE INFINITE DIMENSIONS OR STATES. There is no law governing what state the Being should take. However, the state taken by the Being may in general be governed by a few laws which again is not binding, & is subject to change. Since everything is a "STATE OF BEING", it can be concluded that "THE BEING EXISTS IN EVERY STATE". Whereas the state is governed by the laws of space, time, & causation, "THE BEING TRANSCENDS SPACE, TIME, & CAUSATION". So long as we think we are the state, there are bound to be desires, suffering, & miseries, arising out of the bondage to the state. The moment we transcend the state & become one with the "Being", all bondage vanishes into thin air, as if awakening from a bad dream.
In this Being, there is "ONENESS" there is "UNITY". And, that is what you should appreciate when I told that you should look at the "TOTALITY OF TRUTH". IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO EXPERIENCE TRUTH IN ITS TOTALITY, AS LONG AS WE EXIST IN THE "STATE". WE HAVE TO TRANSCEND THE "STATE" & BECOME ONE WITH THE "BEING" TO EXPERIENCE TRUTH IN ITS TOTALITY. To understand, appreciate, & respect Truth or Reality in its totality, we should not be blinded by our own individual prejudices & judgements or be motivated to spread our own selfish agenda based on our limited experience & knowledge, as is bound to happen when we are in the grip of Maaya of the "state". Understand that the infinite states of the Being is nothing but Maaya, for, the state is bound to change as governed by the laws of space, time, & causation. The Being, on the other hand, exists in all the states & beyond all states.
THIS "BEING" IS THE "TOTALITY OF TRUTH". We have to open our eyes, our vision, our sight; we have to open ourselves completely like a lovely flower opening itself to absorb the early morning sunrays in order to experience Truth or Reality in its totality. That is the goal of all saadhana, all the penance. To expand, to elevate, & to increase the reach of our minds - to encompass both the gross & the subtle, is the goal of education. To inculcate such an education & live life based on these values, is the hallmark of Truthful & Honest life.
Hearing all this, one of the disciples asks: When the majority of people around us are leading untruthful & dishonest lives, why should I endeavor to inculcate these values which apparently do not yield me any benefits? Also, there is a strong likelihood of my being misconstrued as being weak & timid, & be taken for a ride.
The Guru replies thus: My dear child, by being truthful & honest, you are certainly not doing any great service to anyone, for, Truth does not need anybody's sanction for its existence. Truth exists on its own, & is independent of your being established in Truth or not. You are merely doing your duty by being truthful. However, I must say that as a consequence of being established in Truth, you are going to be a great character. Ideally, it is all of our collective responsibility to be truthful in our lives. By being dishonest & untruthful, leave alone anybody else, you are doing a very great & perhaps irreconcilable injustice and harm to yourself & your character. The majority of people are dishonest & untruthful because of their ignorance of Truth, & not because they want to be dishonest or untruthful. The moment they realise the "Truth of Being" and the ignorance of the state appearing to be real is removed, they become established in the Being, & as a consequence they will have no choice but to be Truthful & honest. For, THE BEING IS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH & THE STATE OF BEING IS MAAYA OR TRANSCIENT TRUTH OR RELATIVE TRUTH BECAUSE OF THE INFLUENCE OF SPACE, TIME, & CAUSATION. Hence, by establishing oneself firmly in The Being, one naturally also becomes firmly established in Truth. Use your discretion and intelligence & do what is in accordance with Truth. Remember one thing, an act of untruthfulness & dishonesty does not change the Truth. Does it? Although you may act untruthfully & dishonestly and fool others, you can never decieve your own mind, heart, & conscience, for, they know what the Truth is. How do you reconcile with your own heart & conscience?
As for your being misconstrued as being weak & timid, that argument is totally misplaced & illogical. That's because, what does a man of Truth & honesty have to fear? On the contrary, being established firmly in Truth of Being makes you fearless & gives you infinite strength & courage. In fact, by being established in Truth, you are on the side of no less than Truth Itself. Everything else in the universe is rendered inconsequential in the eyes of Truth. Not even God can do anything when you are so firmly established in Truth. I dare to say that even Gods are rendered inconsequential in the eyes of Truth. Being so firmly established in Truth, you are like the burning Sun which renders everything that comes anywhere close to it into ashes. Only an untruthful & dishonest man has to fear for the consequences of his actions.
The disciple asks again: Sir, what if being Truthful & honest causes harm to me & my near and dear ones?
The Guru says: My dear child, if you understand deeply, you have no choice but to be Truthful & honest, for, the Truth of Being alone is the Supreme Truth & not the state of being. Also, appreciate that you have to be Truthful not to please anyone, but because, being Truthful is the right thing to do & you are duty bound to do such. Also, it should be borne in mind that if there is anything at all to which we owe our total & unconditional allegiance, it is Truth alone. However, should there be any harm to your near and dear ones at the cost of your being Truthful, instead of surrendering to untruthfulness unilaterally, you should try your best to be Truthful to the maximum possible and fight for Truth, for that's our fundamental duty. And, whenever an opportunity comes your way, where you can bring Truth into the open, you should sieze such an opportunity & use it to uphold the Supreme Truth. All of us are accountable to uphold Truth in each of our lives. A man of Truth becomes one with It & attains to freedom. Remember my child, our sacred scriptures have time and time again shouted at the peak of their voices - DHARMO RAKSHATI RAKSHITAHA (WHO PROTECTS DHARMA, IS PROTECTED BY DHARMA). For man, the Supreme Dharma is Truth.